Strategies for Connection
The consumer strike is as much about what we are building together as what we are trying to stop.
That means relationships with real people, who often hold different perspectives and face different challenges when considering taking part in something like this.
Depending on the social and political context of your broader communities, conversations about the strike might be challenging. Part of the goal of this movement is to bring together the broadest possible coalition of people who support a ceasefire and arms embargo, which means reaching across differences to connect with those who might not share our immediate context and views.
Here are some tips we’ve gathered for having potentially difficult conversations:
Prepare yourself for the conversation by picking a good time/place, engaging your own support system, and grounding yourself so you’re feeling as calm as possible.
Ask if they’re open to a conversation on this topic.
Start by listening to what this brings up for them; show them you’re listening by asking open-ended questions, affirming their experience, and reflecting back what you’re hearing.
Share from an “I” perspective why you are personally joining the strike, and why you’re bringing this conversation to them. Repeat step 3 as necessary. The best way for others to listen deeply to us is often to listen deeply to them!
As the strike progresses, stay in contact with and support the people you brought in! Some questions you might ask:
Do they need support? If they regularly shop on Amazon or in “big box” stores out of necessary convenience, are there ways (giving rides, childcare support, etc) that you can show support and care?
Are they facing any challenges? If they have a particular event or activity that’s making sticking to the strike challenging (family time, regular holiday traditions, shopping needs), can you help them brainstorm solutions?
What are some successes they’ve had? Can you share these ideas with broader groups? Could they?
Remember: This is a community effort! Circumstances are always changing. It’s normal for there to be challenges as we adjust. We’re learning, and building, together.